"It is not from the length of its span that we can ever draw conclusion as to
life's meaningfulness. We cannot, after all, judge a biography by its length, by
the number of pages in it; we must judge by the richness of the contents. The heroic
life of one who has died young certainly has more content and meaning than the
existence of some long-lived dullard.
Sometimes the 'unfinisheds' are among the most beautiful symphonies."
[Dr Viktor Frankl, author of The Doctor and The Soul]
On a Wing and a Prayer
Many of you will already have read Cameron's book: "On a Wing and a Prayer" For those of you who haven't his powerful diary of a brain tumour journey still carries an undeniable and powerful message of hope for those suffering with a brain tumour. Sadly though, Cameron passed away peacefully just before Christmas.
Brain Tumour UK send our heartfelt sympathy to Cam 's parents, Janet and Graham, his sister Anna and "his angel" Sarah for their tragic loss. Their strength, support and love knew no bounds and embraced Cam throughout his journey.
The book is available to order from WH Smiths, Waterstones and
from www.januspublishing.co.uk
(Janus Publishing, London, ISBN 185756578 9). All royalties from the sale of the book are
to be donated to Brain Tumour UK.
Tribute from Kathy Oliver
A friend of Cam and his family
Few things in life define the human spirit as sharply and poignantly as a life-threatening illness.
Some people grasp the diagnosis of a brain tumour with a passion and tenacity to thrive and survive that is quite astounding, becoming such an inspiration to others and such a beacon of hope that ultimately, they themselves seem indestructible. Cameron Fulljames was just this kind of man.
His powerful diary of a brain tumour journey, which you now hold in your hands, has brought hope to hundreds of brain tumour patients. It portrays a mix of gritty fortitude, a remarkable sense of humour in the face of adversity and an honesty and generosity of spirit that is heart-warming and extremely moving.
And, in spite of Cameron's peaceful passing just before Christmas 2004, his book still carries an undeniable and powerful message of hope for those suffering with a brain tumour.
Cameron's courageous speeches at numerous brain tumour conferences - without a single note or prompt - brought real inspiration to patients, their families and carers. His oft-repeated war cry, “You can beat this thing!” peppered with a few lively expletives, reverberated through conference halls when he spoke at symposiums; down telephone lines when he talked to anxious patients and across his Edinburgh dining room table when he was visited by members of the brain tumour community. His door and heart were always open to those struggling to come to terms with a brain tumour diagnosis.
Brain tumours know no rules of engagement. They afflict people of all ages and backgrounds.
Each year in the UK , more than 13,000 people are diagnosed with a brain tumour. Whether benign or malignant, the impact of a brain tumour can be devastating and profound for the patient as well as family, carers and friends. Brain tumours continue to be one of the most challenging of all cancers. Time is critical and so much is yet to be learned about the nature of brain tumours and effective treatment options.
There is progress. But unfortunately, medical research in this field is grossly under-funded.
Therefore, it is with deep love and gratitude for the life of Cameron Fulljames that this pledge is made to him:
The fight goes on, though you are now at rest.
The hope survives and is stronger than ever, thanks to you and your inspirational book.
The will and determination are unbowed, for your story hasn't ended.
The faith in tomorrow remains, because you've made such a lasting difference in your unique way.
And if, one day, we can all say "Cam would have been so thrilled to see what wonderful progress has been achieved in the battle against brain tumours," we will be firmly on the way to fulfilling his challenge "to beat this thing" once and for all.
Tribute from Cam's Colleagues at bmi regional
First Officer Cameron Fulljames
Captain Bill Hanton, Flight Operations Director, bmi regional
Moira Farquhar, Senior operations Secretary, bmi regional
Cameron Fulljames was raised on the North Island of New Zealand. On graduation from college he was commissioned into the Royal New Zealand Navy as a Sub-Lieutenant until 1993 when he left to pursue a career in aviation. On completion of his flying training with the Flightline Aeronautical College he was thought so highly of that they offered him his first commercial flying position as a Flight Instructor. In 1998 he emigrated to the UK and joined bmi regional in October 1999 as a First Officer on the SAAB 340 fleet.
In July 2000, Cameron was diagnosed with an inoperable brain tumour, but with his characteristic courage, tenacity and humour, Cameron fought back. Following gruelling radiotherapy and chemotherapy treatments, he returned to bmi regional and became involved with the Training Department as a Ground Instructor. Not content with this he was given the position of Security Manager in August 2001. During this time, it was Cameron's wish to write a book regarding his illness, in an attempt to help and encourage those who were also affected by cancer. The book, On a Wing and a Prayer, is a frank account of Cameron's thoughts and experiences throughout his initial diagnosis and rigorous treatments.
Cameron
also spoke at various conferences concerning the care
of cancer patients. He was a huge supporter of Brain Tumour UK and
the Brain Tumour Foundation. Very sadly, having fought the return
of the cancer tooth and nail, Cameron died in December 2004. His
funeral service was on Christmas Eve. Cameron's story however does
not end there. As his father Graham said, Cameron's book is his
legacy. His message of hope still continues to help and encourage
those affected by brain cancer.Cameron's approach to life was very
straightforward:
'How to live life - dance like nobody is watching!'
Cameron Fulljames Memorial Fund
This fund now stands at £7,200 - An amazing tribute to an amazing man.
Brain Tumour UK will honour all donations made according to Cam's wishes and those of his parents Janet and Graham and his 'angel' Sarah.
Memorial Service
A service in memory of Cam was held on the 28 th February at St Paul 's Collegiate School , in Hamilton , New Zealand
Janet and Graham, Cam 's parents recall the day
" We had a very beautiful, traditional, Anglican Memorial Service for Cam at his old school. The Chapel is relatively new but surrounded by large Elm trees. You look out to a very large water feature which reflects on the glass. It was very peaceful and serene.
We did not place notices in the newspapers, but sent emails and asked that people advise those who they knew would want to pay their respects. Probably had some 180-200 people from all walks of life, including family and friends. There were certainly many pilots
The service was appropriately conducted by Cam's old house master who is now an Anglican minister and knew Cam really well. The School music master, with whom Cam kept in constant communication with, arranged the music and played the massive organ.
Many tears were shed and we were glad that we made the decision to proceed with the service for all concerned"
If you would like to contribute to Cam's web page please email tribute@braintumouruk.org.uk

